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Family Law

N.G. Dastane v. S. Dastane

AIR 1975 SC 1534; (1975) 2 SCC 326

Citation
AIR 1975 SC 1534; (1975) 2 SCC 326
Court
Supreme Court of India
Date
19 March 1975
Bench
Y.V. Chandrachud, V.R. Krishna Iyer and P.K. Goswami, JJ.

Facts

  • Dr. N.G. Dastane and Sucheta Dastane married in 1956.
  • Before marriage, the wife’s family disclosed that she had previously suffered a mental-health episode and had received treatment.
  • Serious marital conflict subsequently arose.
  • The husband alleged that the wife:
  • repeatedly abused and humiliated him;
  • threatened him and his family;
  • behaved violently;
  • made damaging accusations and complaints;
  • created a reasonable apprehension that continued life with her would be harmful.
  • He sought annulment for fraud, divorce for unsoundness of mind and, alternatively, judicial separation for cruelty.
  • The Supreme Court appeal was confined to cruelty.
  • Although the spouses continued living together for a period after several incidents, they eventually separated.

Issue

  • What standard of proof applies in matrimonial proceedings?
  • What conduct amounts to cruelty under the HMA?
  • Whether the husband had condoned the wife’s cruelty.
  • Whether later conduct revived the condoned offence.

Rule

  • Matrimonial proceedings are civil proceedings.
  • Matrimonial allegations are therefore proved on a preponderance of probabilities, not beyond reasonable doubt.
  • The seriousness of an allegation may require careful evidence, but it does not change the civil standard.
  • Cruelty exists where conduct causes a reasonable apprehension that it would be harmful or injurious to live with the other spouse.
  • Under the statutory wording then applicable, proof of actual danger to life or health was unnecessary.
  • Condonation requires:
  • forgiveness of the matrimonial offence; and
  • restoration of the offending spouse to the former marital position.
  • Condonation is conditional; a later matrimonial offence may revive the earlier condoned cruelty.

Application

  • The Supreme Court rejected the High Court’s use of the criminal standard.
  • Marriage affects personal status, but that does not turn matrimonial litigation into criminal prosecution.
  • The court must assess the entire relationship and decide which version is more probable.
  • On the evidence, the wife’s repeated conduct was sufficiently grave to constitute cruelty.
  • The Court warned against dismissing every insult or threat as ordinary marital wear and tear.
  • Conduct must be examined cumulatively and in the social and personal circumstances of the spouses.
  • However, the husband had continued a normal intimate marital relationship with the wife after many of the cruel acts.
  • A child was conceived during that period.
  • This was strong evidence that he had forgiven her and restored her to the position of wife.
  • Mere continuation under one roof would not necessarily establish condonation, because spouses may remain together while attempting reconciliation.
  • But normal marital intimacy, without contrary explanation, demonstrated forgiveness and restoration.
  • The Court then examined whether later events revived the cruelty.
  • Condonation is not complete erasure; it remains conditional on future proper conduct.
  • Yet the later incidents relied upon by the husband were either minor, inadequately proved, or had to be evaluated in light of his own accusations and behaviour.
  • They were insufficient to revive the earlier cruelty.

Conclusion

  • The wife’s earlier conduct amounted to cruelty.
  • The husband had, however, condoned that cruelty by forgiving her and resuming normal marital life.
  • Her subsequent conduct was insufficient to revive the condoned offence.
  • The husband’s appeal for judicial separation was dismissed.
  • Use this case for: the civil standard of proof in matrimonial cases, the meaning of cruelty and the doctrine of condonation.